Gay Things Straight Guys Do.

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A classic from Davey Wavey:

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Sperm.

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From the legendary Laurie Anderson: 

Laurie's piece "Mach 20" from "United States Live". This was on a short-lived TV show called "The New Show". It was produced by the same producer as an earlier show that employed some of the same people, but it definitely was "The New Show". I mean, I taped the damn thing.

Female orgasm rates vary by sexual orientation.

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From the Indiana University:

Study: Orgasm Rates For Single Women Less Predictable Than Men's, Vary By Sexual Orientation

A new study of American singles found that during sex with a familiar partner, men have the highest orgasm rates. On average, men experience orgasm 85.1 percent of the time, with their sexual orientation making little difference. For women, however, orgasm occurrence is less predictable. On average, women experience orgasm 62.9 percent of the time during sex with a familiar partner -- and this pattern varies with women’s sexual orientation, with lesbian women experiencing orgasm more often than heterosexual or bisexual women.

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The new study analyzed data from the 2011 wave of the Singles in America study, a now annual survey on the attitudes and behaviors of U.S. singles using nationally representative samples of single men and women ages 21 and older. The Singles in America sample was augmented to provide a better representation of gay men and lesbian women participants. In the current study, respondents were limited to men and women who had sex with a familiar partner during the previous year. It ultimately involved a final sample of 2,850 individuals.

Findings:

  • Women reported experiencing orgasm 62.9 percent of the time.
  • Lesbian women reported an orgasm rate of 74.7 percent.
  • Heterosexual women reported an orgasm rate of 61.6 percent.
  • Bisexual women reported an orgasm rate of 58 percent.
  • Men reported experiencing orgasm 85.1 percent of the time, with sexual orientation making no statistically significant difference (gay men 84.7 percent; heterosexual men 85.5 percent; bisexual men 77.6 percent).

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The researchers speculate on the patterns observed, suggesting it could be the result of such known factors as length of a sexual encounter (earlier research points to lesbian women spending more time per sexual session); differences in gendered and sexual attitudes across sexual orientation; and even possible biological factors, such as prenatal exposure to the hormones testosterone and estrogen.

The study authors note that the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, also led by IU researchers, found a correlation between the rate of orgasms for men and women and the variety of sexual behaviors they reported.

Garcia said that partner communication -- both spoken and unspoken -- can play a big role in shaping sexual experiences and outcomes, including satisfaction.

"Some individuals will say what they want in a sexual encounter, or may be willing to say as much if their partner asked," Garcia said. "For others, communication may be nonverbal, with body language being key. This may also involve getting to know each other, both in and out of the bedroom, to understand what allows a particular sexual partner to experience a positive sexual outcome."

Importantly, however, Garcia also notes that orgasm should not be equated with sexual satisfaction, as the two can be quite independent, and that in some instances orgasm is not the goal of a sexual encounter.

Read the rest here.

Short film: Piss.

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This short film addresses the issue of how a couple can incorporate one partner's (or both, for that matter) atypical sexual preference(s) into their sexual relationship.

Written/Produced by Bette Bentley. Directed by Vincent Peone and Bette Bentley. Piss is a short film about a girl trying to convince her feminist boyfriend to pee on her. Official selection of the Miami Short Film Festival and Austin Gay and Lesbian Film Festival and Cinekink Film Festival.

WARNING: This film features aggressive language as part of sexual play - to the actors' credit, it's very realistic. If you've been a victim of sexual violence, or find coercion/abuse, even as part of sex play, at all upsetting, this film may trigger a strong and distressing response. Very NSFW language!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jC77OYvvX7E http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1664013/ Written/Produced by Bette Bentley. Directed by Vincent Peone and Bette Bentley. Edited by Monica Racic. Piss is a short film about a girl trying to convince her feminist boyfriend to pee on her. Official selection of the Miami Short Film Festival and Austin Gay and Lesbian Film Festival and Cinekink Film Festival.


100 orgasms per day.

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100 Orgasms A Day: Freak Accident Leaves Man With Debilitating Disorder SUBSCRIBE: We upload a new incredible video every weekday. Subscribe to our YouTube channel so you don't miss out: http://bit.ly/Oc61Hj Watch Amanda Gryce cope with PSAS: https://www.youtube.com/edit?o=U&video_id=XfhmG_9ZqAs A heartbroken man suffers from 100 orgasms each day - but does not enjoy a single one.

Best fake orgasm scene ever?

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From When Harry Met Sally (1989). For those who haven't seen it, the story follows two friends, Harry (Billy Crystal) and Sally (Meg Ryan), over several years and various relationships. Harry claims that men and women can never be friends, while Meg argues that they can. To find out who is right, you'll have to see the movie. At one point Harry and Sally argue about fake orgasms, which leads to this:

This is a classic and funny part to a very good movie. The restaurant/deli scene where Sally fakes an orgasm to prove a point. "When Harry Met Sally" is a classic Billy Crystal & Meg Ryan flick...the woman who said that famous line is none other than TV's funny man actor/producer/director, (Rob Reiner)'s mom, Estelle, who passed away in 2008.

Any more nominees for the best or worst fake orgasm scene ever (excluding porn - that'd be too easy)?

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Ten things you didn't know about orgasms.

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http://www.ted.com "Bonk" author Mary Roach delves into obscure scientific research, some of it centuries old, to make 10 surprising claims about sexual climax, ranging from the bizarre to the hilarious. (This talk is aimed at adults. Viewer discretion advised.)

Mary Roach wrote the book Bonk, which is a peek into the weird and wonderful world of sex research. It's received all sorts of accolades and made many top ten book lists. From the book's homepage:

The study of sexual physiology—what happens, and why, and how to make it happen better—has been going on for centuries, behind the closed doors of laboratories, brothels, Alfred Kinsey's attic, and, more recently, MRI centers, pig farms, and sex-toy R&D labs. I spent two years wheedling and conniving my way behind those doors to bring you the answers to the questions Dr. Ruth never asked. Is your penis three inches longer than you think? Is vaginal orgasm a myth? Can a dead man get an erection? Why doesn't Viagra help women—or, for that matter, pandas?

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Premature ejaculation and women's sexual satisfaction.

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From PsyPost:

Study: Women repeatedly short-changed when it comes to premature ejaculation

Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual disorders in men. But it is not just the men who suffer; it also causes increased psychological strain and stress in women, as a new survey conducted by Andrea Burri, a clinical psychologist at the University of Zurich, reveals.

Around 40 percent of over 1,500 women polled from Mexico, Italy and South Korea indicated that ejaculation control is very important for satisfactory intercourse. It is not the short duration of the act of lovemaking that is primarily regarded as the main source of sexual frustration by the majority of women, but the fact that the man is focused too strongly on delaying ejaculation. As a result, he ignores the sexual needs of the woman and is unable to satisfy her individual desires.

Women who rarely climax suffer more

For the majority of the women polled, satisfying sexuality does not only consist of sexual intercourse, but also includes kissing, caressing and other forms of sexual stimulation, which are considered equally important. If the man is primarily preoccupied with his problem, premature ejaculation and thus his performance, these needs are ignored.

Sexual intercourse is increasingly determined by time and not “how we like it and what is good for us”. “In the long run, the woman becomes distressed and frustrated. Much like the man, she avoids sexual contact for fear of rejection and the resulting trauma for her own sexuality,” explains sex researcher Andrea Burri. The woman thus suffers a loss in quality of life and ultimately calls the relationship into question.

It is mainly women who do not perceive intercourse as the central aspect of sexuality, but prioritize sexual creativity that suffer from the man’s one-sided attention. “Interestingly, lengthy coitus is primarily important for women who do not have any trouble climaxing,” says Burri. For women who rarely reach orgasm – if at all – how long coitus lasts is not central. Instead, the sexual act serves to establish and experience intimacy and commitment. Although premature ejaculation is also regarded as exasperating by women, the short duration is deemed less problematic than the partner’s inattentiveness towards their other sexual needs.

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Orgasms explained in 3 minutes.

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TWEET IT - http://clicktotweet.com/V75eb Everything you wanted to know about orgasms, but were too afraid to ask. Who knew science could be so sexy? Written and created by Mitchell Moffit (twitter @mitchellmoffit) and Gregory Brown (twitter @whalewatchmeplz).

Russell Peters and Howard Stern on penis size.

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Probably best not to watch this if you're easily offended. Definitely NSFW language and content.

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I came across the following clip while trying to find the one of Russell Peters. It has to be one of the cruelest competitions ever (NSFW). It's weird, though, because Howard Stern almost expresses some empathy for the men they bring on the show to humiliate. And who knows what those dudes were thinking? I can't imagine it being too empowering, but maybe it is in some weird Here it is and I ain't hiding it! sort of way?

Howard Stern и соревнование "Smallest Penis Contest" в прямом эфире остальное на alexrostov.eu


No more 'gay panic' defence in California.

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From PinkNews:

US: California Governor Signs Law Outlawing ‘Gay Panic’ Legal Defense

The Governor of California has signed a law outlawing the use of the so-called ‘gay panic’ defense.

The defense – which is often used to get more lenient sentences for criminals after assaults and murders – is based around the claim that a perpetrator was “panicked” into committing a violent crime due to an unwanted advance from a gay person.

More recently, the panic defense has also been used to justify crimes against transgender people after discovering their gender identity.

Rights campaigners have long argued that it is deeply homophobic, and last month a bill axing it was passed by the state assembly by a vote of 50-10.

It was yesterday signed into law by Governor Jerry Brown, making California the first state in the US to expressly outlaw it.

Jordan Blair Woods, a law fellow at the Williams Institute UCLA said: “The gay and transgender panic defenses did not appear until the late 1960s, and rely on outdated ideas that homosexuality and gender non-conformity are mental diseases.

“Since then, the defense has appeared in court opinions in approximately one-third of the states.” Brad Sears, Executive Director of the Williams Institute, added: “This bill not only changes the law in California, but creates a model for other states to follow to eliminate the use of gay and transgender panic defenses in other states.”

‘Gay panic’ defences still exist in varying forms around the world, and in 2009 a man was acquitted of a double murder in Spain, after he claimed he burned down the home of an engaged gay couple due to “an unbearable fear”.

The best-known case of the gay panic defence was in the murder of US student Matthew Shepard. He was killed in October 1998 on the outskirts of Laramie, Wyoming, by two men he had met in a bar. Local residents Aaron McKinney and Russell Henderson, both 21 at the time, were charged with his murder. They told the prosecution they suffered “a moment of insanity” when he allegedly made sexual advances to him. Shephard was robbed, beaten and left to die tied to a fence. Both men are serving consecutive double life sentences.